Head, Heart and Genitals

Semaj Life Lessons

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It is unhealthy to continue to be in love with someone is no longer in love with you. Time for you  to get your heart aligned with what your head knows is the right and healthy thing to do.

Now is the  time to identify who cares and allocate your TEMPTIONS (time and emotions) accordingly.

You must process sexual attraction through the lens of HEAD (Sound Judgement) and HEART (Good Feelings – without Emotional Attachments)

 There is a reason why the head is located above the heart –  sound reasoning should always take priority over good feelings. Condition   oneself to accept the good feelings without allowing unhealthy emotional attachment. When you bring your head down to the level of your heart, we call that rationalization. When you elevate your heart up to the level of your head, that is maturity and wisdom.

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know when to hold, but more importantly, Know when to let go.

In order to hit your target It is not just the strength with which you pull the bow, It’s also knowing when to let go:

“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” – Lao Tzu

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“Life moves on, whether we act as cowards or heroes. Life has no other discipline to impose, if we would but realize it, than to accept life unquestioningly. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate or despise, serves to defeat us in the end. What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy, and strength, if faced with an open mind. Every moment is a golden one for him who has the vision to recognize it as such.” – Henry Miller

“You cannot convince someone to see something that they do not want to see, no matter how much you know it would improve their lives. You have to love and accept them exactly as they are today. If you cannot do that, you have to let them go and find their own way, in their own time, if they ever choose to do so.

Otherwise, you’ll be giving them the power over your happiness, too.” – Doe Zantamata

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2 Responses to Head, Heart and Genitals

  1. This is relevant, and practical reasoning. Awesome! Just not always easy to do (the whole head and heart thing).

    • It is rarely easy to do the “right thing”. Note my inference, “When you bring your head down to the level of your heart, we call that rationalization. When you elevate your heart up to the level of your head, that is maturity and wisdom.

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