Time to Cut, Edit and Delete so That You Can Grow in 2014
If you can safely get through the Christmas madness you can begin to say goodbye to what has been a very testing year. A new year means that you get a chance to make a type of new start. In this way, 2014 brings the possibility for change, but remember that not all change is growth. In order to make room for the possibility of growth in 2014 you need to leave some things and some people behind (still in 2013). Start making your leave behind list from TODAY!
There are some issues and people that you could enrich your life in 2014. Start reaching out to them from TODAY! Remember that it is giving that you receive.
If you do not EDIT, CUT and DELETE some “life files” the “hard drive” becomes cluttered and even corrupted with no more room for storage.
If for you 2013 was a year of austerity, then it’s up to you to make 2014 the year of prosperity.
Show Me Your Friends!
Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves you will learn how to howl. If you lie with dogs you will rise with fleas. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights. It is said that a Mirror Reflects A Man’s Face. But what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses. The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate, for the good and the bad.
The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others It increases your mediocrity. An Important Attribute In successful people Is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people. As You Grow Your associates will change. Some of your friends will not want you to go on. They will want you to stay where they are. Friends that don’t help you climb will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream. Those that don’t increase you will eventually decrease you.
Consider This: Never receive counsel from unproductive people. Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution. Those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how. Not everyone has a right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person. Don’t Follow Anyone who’s not going anywhere. With some people you spend an evening: With others you invest it. Be Careful, Where you stop to inquire for directions along the road of life. Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships
Life Is A Theater, Invite your audience carefully. Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.
Learn to Let Go
It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go. Minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships/friendships!
Observe the relationships around you. Which ones lift? Which ones lean? Which one encourages? Which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill. Which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones don’t really understand you? Know you? Appreciate you?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you, The easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the FRONT ROW. Who should be moved to the balcony of your life. Who belong out of your life.
What Can You Do?
You cannot change the people around you….But you can change the people you are around!
Begin your EDIT, CUT and DELETE TODAY! All the best for 2014